Question: No court order in place, daughter now resides out of state. Unable to retain address info but pay child support. Option?? Answer: So are there no orders in place for custody, visitation, or child support? If there is no order in place for custody/visitation, you options depend on how long the child has been living in the state she is now in. If no order, and the child has been living in the new state for 6 months or more, you will have to file for custody/visitation where she is currently living. If she hasn't been out of Virginia for 6 months, then you could potentially file something in Virginia.