Question: The Decree specifies, my ex-wife is supposed to provide med. insurance for our kids. Now she cant afford it. Options?? Answer: You can enforce the order. If it says she is to provide insurance, she has to do so. Sometimes it will say if she does not provide the insurance, you provide it and she has to pay for it. Contact your attorney to see exactly what your order says and what your options are. You do want to make sure the children are covered, because that is the most important thing.